Men in general, most of the time (very close to all of the time), are often attracted to at least one feature of the opposite sex. Most often, they are attracted to what they see and less often, feel.
Some might tell you otherwise, “all of you is attractive” and all. Hey, to what end? Yes, a few of the female breeds are close to perfection. Yet, it is much closer to sweet talks and stroking fragile egos than stating the honest truth.
Most men crave something to adore in a woman; a peculiarity, a specialty. A particular spellbinding part of her. Of course we know she can’t be perfect. That’s why we need to be treated to those qualities and virtues that really make her special.
It could be her beauty, her mole (being a nevisexual), height, body, delicate hands, straight legs, hair, voice, demeanour, intelligence, delicacies… The list is endless (looks like a part of my list though).
Men look at something that sets a woman a mile apart from the group. Now, it is only natural to keep moving if there isn’t an anchor to keep us grounded.
What a man is attracted to in a woman obviously depends largely on the man. Of course, we are defined by our choices.
Attraction, relative to men, is a function of his own self esteem and desires.
Some men define attraction with beauty. They could be right. Aren’t butterflies attracted to brightly coloured petals? Not like they are bugs or anything though. 😀
Yet, it looks like the universe itself, in all of its glory honours beauty and revolves proudly around it.
So, yes! Beauty is the sight of attraction!
It graces every gathering, charms and commands fellowership and takes the centre stage as the cynosure, drawing attention.
Against popular opinion however, beauty isn’t all about the pretty face. Yet, for the purpose of this post, let us assume we are referring to the cute face and perfect body.
Yes, just like all things ornamental, men are attracted to beautiful women. Most of the time, to show off in their immediate circle. “They” enjoy the company of gorgeous women and the attention it brings. They are attracted to the physical.
Other men, more in touch with their roots, who listen patiently and attentively to their mothers and who basically look more to the future than the present are attracted to a woman’s demeanour.
Indeed, support, love, care and loyalty, among other things can be deduced from a woman’s general behaviours. Behavioural attraction reeks of maturity. They don’t get any better than that.
Well, for some of us, intelligence is supreme.
Intellectual attraction is intricately beautiful. It is always so exciting and awesome finding someone who can relate with us on a whole lot of fronts. The attraction is automatic, you just click.
A man should realise how lucky he is if by some weird and favourable fate he finds himself with a being that is attractive on all fronts…