There is no point being in a relationship with someone who isn’t proud to have you…
Recently, I’ve been inundated with display pictures as above on BBM, mostly by ladies frustrated about the lack of ‘advertisements’ by their boyfriends. You know, the bae display pictures, #WCW and #MWME hash tags, the ‘I love you’ pms and all. Wheew, all these shht is intense you know, hehe.
Our ladies should know for fact that sometimes, it’s not all doom and gloom. I mean some guys just don’t know how to openly profess their love and affection, especially on BBM. Some are not really romantic and others prefer the low key kinda relationship; ‘you and me’ sturvs, nothing concern the world. They just wanna enjoy their relationship in peace.
Anyway, I still don’t understand why we would wanna hide our loved ones from the world. I mean, isn’t that basic? Except maybe there is another person comfortably nestled on their BBM contact list that they don’t wanna spook. Hmmm, that actually makes sense. Main chick/side chick conundrum.
Personally, I believe we should never have to wonder where we stand with people we love. So yeah, if they are proud of it- what they’ve got- they should be able to show it off. I think it is that simple, everything being equal.
But again, isn’t everyone entitled to their privacy? Should it be all puppy and dove?! Hehe, maybe not… Not until she starts to think there are two or more significant others on your list which warrants your anonymity.
I hate to rant on this one, so why exactly would we want to keep our significant other in wraps?
•Another significant other?
It is not rocket science. If I have one or more ‘babies’ (do I? It’s hypothetical you know), it would be normal for me to stick with texts, templates, landscapes etc as my display pictures on BBM (which I do) or keep my pictures running all year round. I mean, there shouldn’t be any conflict of interests, right? It’ll be safe for me to restrain from putting up any of their pictures except on their birthdays. 😀 Better still, (if push comes to shove), I could put up a friendly smiley to accompany their pictures. Works all the time. (PS, this ain’t no DIY on cheating!)
• Not romantic?
OK, apart from the obvious, some people are naturally not romantic, shy maybe. But hey, is there anything like being timid in love? *Pensive* I believe love demands show off, it begs to be seen, heard and appreciated. Love demands attention. If you can’t give it all it requires and feeds off, their is no point being in a relationship.
In conclusion, some of us are genuinely private. Please respect that… enough said! *rotfl*
…I no do kelekele love o…
Btw, I know this is so biased. I mean I was way too much on the side of the ladies. Well, maybe I’m a feminist or more likely, maybe I feel sorry for them. I’m sorry guys, part two?